We're Two Fly

We’re Two Fly!!!!!!

It is an awesome feeling when you find someone who you connect with spiritually, mentally, and physically, but when that someone is able to challenge you, and push you, well that’s what we Louisianans call “Lagniappe”, or a little something extra! That being said, with Tara I believe I hit the jackpot!

So as we were planning our trip to Miami, Tara said, “don’t forget your outfit for the flight, something casual and comfortable.”  Well, being so heavily involved in athletics I thought, “oh that’s easy, sweats, athletic tee, and sneakers…DONE!”  I guess she read my mind, because she said, “and don’t’ think for a minute that you’re walking next to me in the airport with those sweats and a tee shirt on! LOL!  So, kinda frustrated, my response was, “then show me what comfy and casual looks like!”  Without batting an eye she says, “Ok, bring me a pair of your old jeans, get your red loafers, and run to Wal-Mart and grab a pack of white V –neck tees… Oh and by the way, I need to borrow your corral linen shirt.”  Viola! 

My point is, even when it comes to fashion, this chick pushes me to step outside of my own ideas, and comfort zone! And I have to admit, I kinda like it! Can you say, “We’re two Fly?” No pun intended.

So fellas don’t be afraid to let your girl dress you! After all, if she’s feelin the look, then it’s the right look!!!!

Back That Thang Up!

So Fredrick and I attended a birthday party at Brickhouse in Arlington Tx. We are not big on clubbing unless it involves swing dancing, which this place doesn’t on this particular night.  Nevertheless, the DJ had us feeling young again with his selection of ole school R&B, and hip hop from Houston to Louisiana, mixed with some West Coast and we had a partaaay! We were grooving, and the drinks were flowing for the majority of the patrons, which leads me to my point. LOL! 

Ladies what do you do when someone is trying to push up on your husband/man? Well, that was my exact situation that night. I mean I know the brother looks good and all, but don’t get beside yourself. We were standing along the wall and the lady grabs a chair and starts to back it up and twerk something all at the same time. For the elders that mean she was shaking her money maker like a salt shaker on Fredrick. Her dress was practically undone, and panties were showing. I politely moved him to the side and took this dance for him so when she turns around to see his face she was staring directly at me!!!! LOL! I think we all were shocked, I mean the nerve. I remember a time when this would have gone bad really quickly, but because I’m more mature, I wasn’t concerned about the woman at all!  She was extremely intoxicated, and so not his type, the situation was actually more funny than threatening. Now had she been a “Beyoncé” type you know built like a “brick house” ,no pun intended, I would have kicked her in that very thing she was trying to back up! Her friends immediately came over to apologize for her actions. Do you think I handled the situation properly? What would you have done?

"Blended Families" with The Marshalls

Love Tip Friday!

STOP!!!!!

Have you taken time out to flirt with your mate via text! Lol, no I’m not talking about sexting, but just “flirt texting!”  You know "hey baby I love you!" or send a selfie telling the other person how "you are nothing without them." I know, I know you think it’s corny, but it let's your partner know you're thinking of them. It’s not always money or time, but the thought that counts. You know "flirt texting" "I wish you were here!" "I miss you! I can’t wait to see you!" or "About last night, did you enjoy it? I did!!!"

~Ebony Ardor

Love Seat with the McCollums "Intimacy"

The Engagement!!!!

Fredrick purposed  to me 30,000 feet in air!!! We were on a flight to Miami, and I was totally surprised!!!!!! When the flight attendant first called me to the front of the plane  I didn't move; I just sat there thinking, "What????? Why????" LOL! Reluctantly I made my way to the front of the plane. When I got there the lady said, " we just wanted everyone to see your braid."  Standing there confused, and puzzled, I said, "Huh?"   As I stood there trying to process what was going on, Fredrick began singing Eric Benet and Tamia's "Spend my life with you ! I was in complete shock, my knees were knocking, tears were flowing, and  my stomach was filled with butterflies  from the excitement. Then Fredrick ran to the front of the plane!!!!!  I said "YES"!!!!!!!!

She is He...

Tara...

How many of us love to dress and undress our man? Here are some tips in helping your man stay fly! First, know your man and his style. Fredrick's style is clean, sexy, and streamline with a touch of preppy flare! Second tip, keep it simple! Third, don't forget the cologne, because there is nothing like a good smelling man. 
This outfit encompasses all the things that my man is a strong, educated black man, and I love it!;)

 Blazer-Thrift Store similar here

V neck- Sweater - Aeropostale  similar here

Tie-Ross similar here

Grey button down- Marshall's couldn't find a decent priced one:(

Chap Jeans- Marshall's available here

Puma shoes-Old similar here

Chrome- Macy available here

Fredrick…

In my opinion, confidence and style are two of the most attractive characteristics a woman can possess.  There's something to be said about a woman who's not afraid to walk into a crowded room all alone, or who isn't afraid to swim up steam in regards to her style. In one word, SEXY!  Tara epitomizes these two characteristics. Whether she's rockin a classic, form-fitting dress for a night out, or she's stealing one of my v neck Tees to rock with some denim,  and riding boots, she always sets the bar. That's why I hired her as my stylist.   Plus she's free. Lol

Scarf necklace- S and S available here